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Bonny Becker's avatar

The world has changed a lot, but I can tell you as a 75-year-old, this aspect of the dating game sounds familiar. It kind of was ever thus. If he doesn't text, doesn't call, doesn't put in some effort to get with you... he's just not that into you. If I could advise my 20's self (not that she would listen) I would tell her, when he likes you, when he's interested, he will make the effort. Quit waiting for it to happen. There's no magic you can do. As Bonnie Raitt says, I can't make you love me if you don't. You can't make your heart feel something it won't."

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Georgia Witchel's avatar

A quote I love “if he wanted to he would”

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Mike Chapman's avatar

Keep the faith Georgia… I didn’t run into Gay until the age of 30 and fell madly in love with her… it was the second luckiest day in my life; my luckiest day was when she accepted my marriage proposal. She was modest, artistic, beautiful, and without a doubt the most intelligent woman I had ever met. You have the same qualities.

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Stephanie Smith's avatar

This is awesome! I’d try it!

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Carla Jurado's avatar

I’m 49 and it’s the same

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Georgia Witchel's avatar

Maybe 50 will be better? 😂😭🤔

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